Many people throughout the world live with incontinence; however, they infrequently make themselves heard. In the current discourse regarding patient empowerment, this poses a dilemma as empowerment is usually believed to emerge from an individual or collective voice. A common response is that the existing taboo needs to be confronted. However, the metabolic functions of the body are a private affair for most people and ‘coming out’ as being incontinent is not necessarily empowering. Hence, solely focusing on the breaking of taboos to improve empowerment will not suffice. On the basis of nine biographic interviews with Dutch people with incontinence, we examine alternative forms of empowerment in everyday practices. Three strategies are detected: creating predictability; learning how to hide incontinence products; and confronting the incontinent body in encounters with others. Above all, it appears that sharing experiential knowledge on all these matters with peers can lead to more promising forms of empowerment for this group of people than the more usual discourse on voice and taboo.